I make a point to remind myself of my favorite quote every morning, in hopes of living it out [especially while I’m driving 😉 ], “Be kinder than necessary for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle.”
My husband and I speak often about this topic and how difficult of a calling the verse, “Bless those who curse you” actually is. Sometimes we really just don’t want to pray for people because we actually don’t desire good things for them. They may have hurt us too badly and we feel that they deserve to hurt as well. Others feel that they are allowing themselves to be ‘walked all over’ if they don’t speak their minds. But aren’t we perpetuating the cycle of anger and hatred when we live that way? What would it look like if you chose kindness instead?
So as this “Starbucks man” was leaving, I tapped him on the shoulder and wished him and his family a very Happy Thanksgiving. Not because of who I am, but because of who God is to me.
He didn’t break down in tears, he didn’t apologize for his actions, but the look in his eye of slight surprise was enough to know that it had possibly made the smallest impact. That was enough for me to realize that compassion always wins.
Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!
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I love this post and love your heart behind it, Lindsey! I often forget the power of praying for people in the moment. I work at a cafe and my shifts are often right in the morning - the ripe hours before the world has had coffee, haha - and it can be so easy to forget that I have no idea what others are going through and compassion is so key. Thank you for this reminder! Have a beautiful Thanksgiving!
I love this! I find myself biting my tongue a million times a day. And definitely I feel like I'm walked all over. It's good to know that through me, God can show others what He can do. I will keep that verse in mind for next time ?