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I get it and love this! My husband and I don't have access to each other's phones, but I'd totally be open to it. It does just create a sense of trust! Many blessings in your marriage. :)
Such a raw and honest post. My hubby has access to my phone and I to his. It really does create a world of open communication and a lack of secrecy.
Although we have separated, trust was never an issue for my ex and I. We always knew we could look at the others phone/email/whatever whenever we wanted to and because of this we never felt the need to.
I 100% agree. Transparency is key to a successful marriage. As always... great post!
I loved this post. It's not about trying to "catch" someone - it's about the gesture saying that they know you have nothing to hide or vice versa.
You make such valid points. My boyfriend and I went through some trust issues and now we both have access to each other's phones. We don't look through them, but we know we can if we ever need to. I regularly ask him to reply to texts if I'm busy doing something else, so he feels more comfortable knowing that I'm not keeping anything a secret.
Having faced up to the demons of secrecy, this touches very close to home for me. My boyfriend and I are not married yet, but we freely hand our phones back and forth to eachother for any number of things. "My battery is dying, can I use yours" or "I can't log into so and so, can you check what time this event is" As you said, technology is a huge part of our lives, so the willingness to share the object that knows you more than anything else you interact with is a small gesture that can have a huge impact on a relationship.
What a beautiful post girl! This is so important. I know so many friends who don't have their husbands password and I just cringe wondering why not. My husband and I have complete openness in all computers, social media and phones and I believe whether you check it or not, it creates a great foundation of trust! Thanks for sharing and encouraging marriages!
I love this post. My fiance and I are getting married in July, and we both really want to work at making our marriage as Godly and open and loving as possible. I cannot wait to serve God by serving Matt as his wife! this post was really encouraging to read through, knowing that there are other relationships that are built on honesty and trust and openness is really refreshing :) x
I totally think you should have unlimited phone access in your relationship. Its like you said. Its little secrets etc that arent anything that can plant seeds of mistrust and doubt. Openness and honesty is the best thing for any relationship.