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Hello! Sweet and heartwarming article :) I recently got closer to a friend of mine, and he is exactly the honest-kind-available guy you described. He is incredibly patient, he shows me so much love and tenderness. He respects and honors me in such a way, I've just never felt so valuable and appreciated, regardless of my flaws. The thing is HE IS NOT A CHRISTIAN, and this makes me sad. I love Jesus and I want to build my future with a man who has a solid relationship with Jesus. I've rejected my friend so many times because of his spiritual state, and he just never ceased to show love and care for me. He is always there, gives me all his time and affection. He also respects my choice of purity. So I just don't know if I should give it a try, and pray for him to get saved (I already do since we have been just friends, and he has made some steps towards God), or just give up on him, and wait for a man who is saved. Thanks in advance for answering. I really want to do God's will on this issue. Blessings.
Thats a hard spot to be in, I can relate, being in a similar situation myself...I don't know if things have changed by now for you. I'm at the point where I will have to have that conversation soon of why things won't work out for us right now. Its not fair for either person. Go by rules or lacks thereof, that are not their conviction, and it's not best even for the unbeliever. If he's exploring God he needs space to do that and not just to please you...i've been there before too. Sometimes God waits for us to step back, so he can work in their life. I guess thats what we both need to do. Don't give up praying; just release him and the situation and your heart to God, step back, and walk in obedience to Him. He can provide exactly the man you need in the right time ??